Sunday, July 10, 2011

Silent but not forgotten...

So after years of silence (due to different priorities) I am considering restarting my blog... what would you like to hear more about... leave a comment with your suggestions....

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

How do you deal with betrayal from someone who wanted you to trust them and was mad when you didn't trust them?

Adena Vanderwielen, Ph.D. said...

Well... It is up to you to decide when to trust someone.... Nobody can make you feel something you can't... And as far as "betrayal"... That word holds a lot of weight... I would have to know more to offer any thoughts on the matter...

Mary said...

I found your blog after realizing that my anger toward an ex was my way of avoiding depression over the jarring disappointment of him breaking up with me. I think I prefer the resentment toward him instead of feeling sad about him... not sure if that's good or bad :)

I enjoyed your other posts that I glanced at, also. So these are some suggestions based on thoughts that have been on my mind recently.

- How to balance the cons of staying in toxic/unhealthy/unfulfilling/misbalanced relationships (platonic and romantic) vs. the cons of feeling very alone (not having [m]any close friends or a significant other, and often feeling misunderstood).

- How to deal with betrayal of some past friends when attempting to strike out into the world again and forge new relationships.

- How to deal with the pain of heart-breaking unkept promises from those who were closest to you.